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Madina & Arman's winter wedding

Esil Grand Hall, Astana Dec 19, 2026

Meet the family

The Zhaksylykovs family

The Zhaksylykovs family

Hosted by Bolat · Astana

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Bolat and his wife Gulmira moved to Astana from Kostanay twenty years ago. Their home is always full of relatives from the village, and Bolat's nephew Arman, who speaks English, helps us welcome guests.

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The family's story

Arman is Bolat's nephew and the first in our family to study abroad. He always said that when he married, he wanted friends from other countries to see a real Kazakh wedding. It is cold in December in Astana, but inside the hall it will be very warm — about 400 guests, a great asaba and a lot of dancing.

Program

  1. Saturday, December 19

    Betashar and wedding feast

    1. 15:00Guests gather at the banquet hall
    2. 16:00Betashar: introducing Madina to the Zhaksylykov family
    3. 17:30Wedding feast with beshbarmak
    4. 19:00Toasts, games and live music led by the asaba
    5. 22:30Dancing until late

Traditions at this event

  • Betashar
  • Shashu
  • Toibastar
  • National music
  • National dances

About this tradition

Үйлену той / Келін түсіру, Беташар

The wedding toi (also called kelin tusiru, "bringing in the bride") is when the bride is welcomed into the groom's family. Its heart is Betashar, "opening the face", a poetic introduction of the new daughter-in-law to her husband's relatives.

Read more about Wedding toi with Betashar →

What's included

  • A seat at the table
  • Full menu
  • Alcoholic drinks
  • Soft drinks
  • Attend the whole wedding
  • Transfer
  • A seat with English-speaking relatives

Not included

  • Accommodation
  • Flights to Astana

Practical info

Dress code
Formal. Bring warm outerwear; it can be −25 °C outside
Venue
Banquet hall
Restaurant
Esil Grand Hall
Address
Shared after your booking is confirmed
Cost of one seat at the restaurant
₸25,000
Event size
About 350 people
Invited guests
350
Someone to talk with foreign guests
Yes

Cancellation policy

Strict

50% refund up to 30 days before the event. No refund after that.

$120 · 1 guest

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You won't be charged until the family approves your request.